Every individual offers with heartbreak and grief in another way: Some folks search solitude, like JC Santos; others, like Zanjoe Marudo, encompass themselves with pals.
“It has become my default to travel alone every time I feel pain or lost … when I’m grieving. I need some distance and take a step back, so I can be closer to myself, understand what I’m feeling and acknowledge the circumstances surrounding me,” he mentioned in a digital convention for the Vivamax romance drama “366.”
While he’s now fortunately settled together with his spouse, Shyleena Herrera and their 2-year-old daughter, River Aletheia, JC mentioned he used to go on solo soul-searching when he was youthful. “I need to do it by myself. It has been my process since I was younger, because I’m used to dealing with things on my own. It just makes sense to me,” he mentioned.
One of his protected areas a few years again was El Nido, Palawan. “I found a community there when I shot a film there … I met people with whom I can be myself. I went there a few more times after. It became my ‘unloading’ place,” he associated.
JC’s costar, Zanjoe, is the other. In instances of grief, he typically turns to pals for some ethical assist. “I prefer to have people with me and do things I like and enjoy my hobbies. I play golf to clear my mind. I keep myself busy, doing things I love,” Zanjoe mentioned. “I will face it (the situation) when things are lighter, with the help of my friends.”
He doesn’t essentially have to speak brazenly about what precisely he’s going via. Companionship is greater than sufficient. “I don’t have to talk about it … I just need company. Knowing that there is someone there for me is already a big help,” he mentioned.
And as tough as it’s, typically, he mentioned, you simply must really feel ache. “You have to feel it until it dries up. Otherwise it (the pain) will stay there and resurface when you’re alone or when there are triggers. You have to get past it completely and remove it from your system,” he mentioned.
What was the craziest factor they’ve performed for love? “I almost moved to another country to settle down back when I was 23—almost! Good thing, my dreams prevailed,” JC mentioned.
Zanjoe, on different hand, prompt that folks in love don’t actually discover if what they’re doing is “crazy” or not. “Everything you do for love, you don’t really notice whether it’s normal or crazy. There’s no specific thing that stands out for me, because, when I’m in love, I feel like every move I make is normal. I don’t assess my actions that way,” he mentioned.
While the 2 actors are continually looking out for brand spanking new, difficult roles, JC and Zanjoe additionally expressed curiosity in presumably branching out to writing or directing, like their “366” main woman and director, Bela Padilla.
“We will get there at some point because of our love for storytelling. I’m planning on writing and directing. I have some concepts now; I just have to present them,” JC mentioned.
Zanjoe admitted that he wants to seek out some braveness to transcend appearing. “Sometimes, when you’re interested in something, you’re scared of failure or rejection. But for now, I want to focus on doing projects that I haven’t done as an actor. I want to do more projects that can go outside the country,” he mentioned. INQ
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